Real Housewives of OC -11/20/25 – Reunion Part 3 (part 1 recap)

I am actually shocked at Heather and the mushrooms/CBD thing. Never in a million years would have thought this was something she would be into.

Is she just trying to appear relatable?

Shannon and Heather this season were refreshing, for the most part, however I was disappointed in Shannon’s treatment of Katie.

Shannon typically does not participate in the mean girl BS, but maybe this season she felt the need, or was pressured to do so since she didn’t have any type of trauma this season. Heather acted down to earth and silly and it was awesome.

If Bravo were to ask what I think (so far they haven’t) I would do an experiment and totally get rid of the ones whose entire schtick is being a cunty bitch.

Off the top of my head that would be Tacos and Tamtrums.

Bring Vickie back, I’m fine with that, what I’m not looking forward to is Bravo’s plan for her, Shannon and Tamtrums to all be fighting because Vickie is friends with them both. You know how that goes with these three.

Anyway get rid of the miserable buzzkills who think they have to act like *** to be relevant and let’s just have Shannon, Heather and the rest doing stuff with their kids and going out having actual fun, with no bullying and gang-ups and silly contrived ‘story lines.’

Get rid of Gretchen too. She’s not that fun and the whole thing with the following and engaging with accounts that bully gay and trans people is extremely disturbing.

Andy tells Heather how impressed he is with her newfound free spirited mushroom partaking energy.

I didn’t like that singling out of Katie for being the village idiot for not knowing the UK is an island, and not knowing they were on the Mississippi River in Nashville. None of them knew what river it was, not even Tacos who constantly drones on and on about how smart she is.

Jenn constantly has a deer-in-the-headlights look on her face, mispronounces words, didn’t know what a panic room was, and don’t even get me started on Tamtrums and Gina.

But single out the one non-white woman to try to make her look stupid. Does Andy have like zero say in the questions?

Why wouldn’t he refuse to read this question? Assuming he watched the season as he’s supposed to he should have seen that not one of them in the group knew that were on the Mississipi River.

Jenn and Gina chime in they had no clue either. So I don’t know, that seemed a little shitty and uncalled for to do that to Katie.

The dramatic finale:

Gretchen being confronted by Gina, per Tamturms’ strict instructions for ‘liking’ anti-gay/trans hate rhetoric posts and commentary.

Now we know Tamra was aware of them ‘for a year’ (maybe two) but of course playing the Housewife game as she’s paid to do, so the ‘other Happy Eddie (happy in a different way though) can live the life to which he’s become accustomed, saved it to bring up for the finale.

Gretchen’s excuse of ‘not paying attention’ to what she was liking is so freaking lame. I can see that if it was one or two likes on accounts she’s not following, but following many accounts and having many likes of anti-gay posts and videos?? Give us a break Gretchen. And she seemed nervous to me as it was being brought up with the long “Look…Listen…” followed by a long pause (although she should have been prepared with what she wanted to say.)

Of course she has the right to believe what she wants to believe yadda yadda yadda. I had people telling me that on my Facebook post about it.

I know that, I’m not an idiot. The issue is, that’s a very controversial belief in this day and age, so even as a non-public figure type person you would keep that to yourself or only tell close friends and family that you hate people you don’t know for no valid reason whatsoever.

But being a Bravoleb/reality star/public figure or whatever the hell you want to call her, to be publicly supporting the belief that gay and trans people are less-than,

is absolute career suicide and just plain stupid.

And furthermore, IF this is the way she views the gay and trans community, to the point where she’s following it on social media, then fucking say it with your chest, woman. It’s all fun and games when you’re hiding behind a cell phone, but when you’re confronted about it we play meek, dumb and innocent. Give us a break Gretchers.

I personally think, these are Slade’s beliefs and he managed to get her on board with it. Perhaps he’s even the one liking the posts under her account.

She is coming off extremely Stepford Wifey don’t you think? When Matt was trying to talk to her about his interactions with Slade (who was invited to speak for himself) she kept interrupting with no Slade said this…’ like his spokesperson or something.

Anyway, after her him hawing for a minute, she says she wants to make it clear that there is no excuse for liking anything having to do “with any offensive sentiment.” She seems very tense to me.

Offensive, or whatever??

Okay Gretchen.

She claims she “denounces anything that seems transphobic or homophobic” and she’s in SHOCK about what was brought to her.

Okay Gretchen. You’re such a fucking liar.

Andy asks if she recognized any of the posts that Tamtrums had screen shots of, and she claims she did not.

Okay Gretchen.

She uses the ‘mindlessly scrolling’ excuse again. Absolutely near impossible as an adult to not know you were liking several homophobic posts. For fucks sake Gretchen just own it. If you were brazen enough to show publicly this is your schtick, then own it when you’re asked about it.

The playing dumb is what I just CANNOT deal with.

Wait a minute, are they really saying they think this??” Yes, Gretchen they are, because you do! That overly exaggerated scrunched-up confused face – AGAIN!!

Do you actually think I agree with all of the posts that I liked??

Shannon and Tacos are noticeably quiet during all of this, not even making any annoyed smirks or faces as she lies her ass off. Shannon does question the 200 accounts thing, but that’s it. She never expresses any type of disapproval.

I hate the gays too so I don’t really care. Wake me when this is over.

But holy fucking hell, Katie befriended a Bravo/Housewife influencer and made a recording of a funny Shannon meltdown!

Alert the media! Call the donut eaters!! Life as we know it is over!!

But Gretchen being outed as despising gays and trans people, being on a show on a very liberal channel, on a very liberal network, living in a very liberal area, with the ‘King of Bravo’ being a gay guy, and one of the wives having three gay/trans kids, not one fucking word is said from those two.

You don’t follow 200 accounts of a certain niche subject, without knowing it for FUCKS SAKE Gretchen.

She was ‘bothered’ by the screenshot Tamtrums showed her, so she had a cyber analysis done, allegedly, and she claims Tamtrums was ‘tied to.’

I heard that Slade’s friend did this so-called cyber analysis.

I’m okay with Gretchen following right-leaning accounts as I was pointing out earlier, that’s not the problem. Even Andy said she has the right to do that.

I’m tired of non-democrats being constantly villainized. Housewives are allowed tp be Republican people, but hating the gays? That IS unacceptable.

She shouldn’t have to explain that of course, but being a fan of accounts picking on and bullying a certain type of person, no that’s not cool. She should know better.

I feel like Gretchen is doing a lot of over-explaining and over-compensating, which to me screams bullshit.

Heather shares the tidbit that she has heard ‘rumblings’ over the years that Gretchen is anti-gay.

So I would say, these ‘rumblings’ coupled with the likes and follows on social media, that it’s a high possibility that it’s true. And it just annoys me to no end that she doesn’t own it.

I feel like it debunks her claim that she ‘didn’t know’ because she follows so many accounts, she didn’t realize what was what. But if she recently was ‘liking’ this shit, that makes NO SENSE. My God does she think viewers are this stupid.

Tamra asks if she ‘unliked’ the controversial posts after the revelation? No, she hasn’t she claimed. She’s fucking lying.

Tamtrums who seems to have a lot of time on her hands, printed out accounts that she had removed her likes on, except she missed one.

Gretchen is again ‘confused.’

Oh shit Slade missed the Bud Light thing?

Andy is really going hard for Gretchen which is kind of surprising, as a gay person, just saying. Wish he would have stuck up for Katie like this, or Shannon every time Tamtrums told her to shut up when she tried to speak.

Whatever Andy. You make no sense as usual. Apparently he has a hard-on for Gretchen Rossi, who hates gay people.

So the cyber analysis ‘company’ is I believe this to be Slade’s friend. She claims she spent ‘thousands.’ I’m positive that’s a lie.

Isn’t there something in the Bible about lying being forbidden?? Some ‘commandment’ or something??

Yes Tamra there was AI (AA as she says) three years ago. Andy doesn’t make fun of her.

Does this “third party cyber analysis company” have a name, Gretchen? Was it necessary to point out ‘third party?’

That tells me they knew the guy that did this fake report.

And it was a THIRD PARTY!! We didn’t know the guy at all!! I swear!!

I hate to say this, I mean I HATE TO SAY THIS, but believe Tamtrums.

I don’t think she was any type of creator of these accounts for the purpose of setting up Gretchen, or whatever the hell she’s trying to say. It’s ludicrous actually.

Andy officially asks Tamtrums why she waited until the finale filming to make Gina (Gina, sorry you ARE her minion and her henchman) address this with Gretchen. And if course we know why. Andy you know why. Jesus is this your first day?

Another example of why I think Tamra is mentally ill, had a stroke or is just fucking stupid AF, when she continues to get questioned about why she never brought up the knowledge of the hate-mongering posts before now, she claims she wasn’t “sitting on the info’ but also admits how she has been aware of them for two years but not saying anything until now, since Gretchen came back to the show.

Very definition of expression ‘sitting on’ something Tamtrums. My God.

I was just waiting for the right moment when it would be the most damaging!

Gretchen gets asked to explain ‘posts were tied to Tamra.’ It IS kind of vague.

She explains it but I don’t get it. It doesn’t sound like anything you would need a ‘cyber analysis’ to figure out.

Gretchen scolds Gina for being Tamra’s bitch. Gina says she regrets being Tamra’s bitch. I would hope she regrets that. How embarrassing.

Why did Tamtrums bring this info to Gina and ordered her to deliver the revelation?? Because Gina is her bitch, Andy. What don’t you understand?

Gina knelt down to the alter of Tamtrums Judge. Why? Because she’s an idiot and pathetic. I feel like this is harsh but I had some wine. It’s not my fault.

Heather points out that Tamtrums tried to make this a thing with her a few years ago and she declined to engage. Tamtrums then tries again at the cake party, and again Heather declined to engage.

So after two failed attempts, what does she do? Enter Gina The Vagina Kirchenwhatever, Tamra’s dumb ass six-foot lap dog.

Tacos and Tamtrums bicker about who’s the bigger asshole.

Why don’t we just call both you bitches equal on the asshole meter, and call it a day. Fucks sake what an idiotic argument.

I can’t think of another word to call you because I just woke up.

I wasn’t following the podcast segment of their dispute and I don’t really care. That was excruciating.

Two miserable bullying bitches arguing over who’s the bigger shit head. Love that for them.

They play the footage on the way to the airport where Gina and Heather have remorse over attacking Gretchen without any real proof that she was homophobic.

Gina probably couldn’t find the ‘likes’ because she had Slade (who may have been responsible for liking them to begin with) unlike them all. Poor guy was probably up all night unliking nasty anti-gay posts.

Gina expresses remorse for getting involved in the first place when it seemed like it was just a tit for tat situation between Tamtrums and Gretchen.

Tacos defends Gretchen, which again just kind of make me chuckle that this is the behavior she chooses to defend. She’s fucking sinister.

I just don’t get blind hatred for a certain group of people, whether it be based on race, sexual preference, religious beliefs, whatever, to just HATE someone for being gay or a different race, or whatever.

I’ll reserve my ‘hatred’ energy for people who deserve it and have earned it, thank you very much. You know who you are.

Gretchen keeps weeping and repeating “not who I am, not who I align with.”

Okay Gretchen. Her tears seem pretty crocodile in my opinion. She tries to deflect by talking about ‘Naked Wasted.’

Don’t mistake that I’m taking Tamtrums’ side. They can both be fucking jack-offs in different ways. She and Tamtrums scream at each other, which is getting so old and tired.

Tacos speaks up on Gretchen’s behalf AGAIN, that the accounts that are reposting Gretchen’s ‘likes’ are ‘pro-Tamra’ accounts.

There are pro-Tamra accounts? For real? They have to be her own accounts. She cannot have any fans. She just can’t. It’s not possible.

Stay tuned for Part 2 (of Part 3!)

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