And we’re still at dinner in NYC. Ralph, the assistant Anthony, and Ralph’s sexual preference still the topic, unfortunately. Ralph takes it rather well when being told someone is spreading gossip that he’s gay. Most guys I know, that are NOT gay, would be rather offended at that. (not that there’s anything wrong with it, just saying, 99.9% of 100% heterosexual guys would not take too well, being told that “word on the street” is that you’re gay, at the dinner table, while filming a show in front of millions.)
So that leads me to believe that there is some truth to it.
This is getting rough for Ralph. First poor guy gets called out on his narcissistic personality disorder type behavior, now gets told that their employee is telling everyone that he’s gay.
It doesn’t seem like he nor Drew, have that much of a reaction to it. I don’t know – what do we think? Maybe he’s bi, and she knows this? So she is like “tell me something I don’t know, this is old news…”
We’re done with this, and the subject quickly flips to Sheree being “messy.” Sheree wants an apology for their altercation at Brooklyn’s birthday, and putting her hands all up in her face. Drew apologizes.
Ralph wants to know how HIS name got brought into all of this. I think the best thing for him to do is just sit there and shut up. Sheree is mad at Kandi for helping to spread the word on how she never paid this Anthony dude. This guy really really wants his fifteen minutes, and he seems to be getting it.
He just can’t stop talkin shit on the Housewives and House Husbands.
Kenya gets a call from her stupid asshole ex, while they’re at dinner, who is seeing/babysitting Brooklyn (probably more like babysitting – sorry – just don’t think that the dude really cares too much about spending ‘quality time’ with his toddler.) He texts her this long ass text bitching at her, that he has to now “go to work” (have to look up what he does – it’s like night time and probably a weekend, so he suddenly has to “go to work – yeah okay.) So fucking typical of these guys. I ‘m sure if I would have been smart and divorced my husband when my kids were little, would have been same fucking story. When we were together, and there were the rare ocassions, and I mean rare, like 2 or 3 times a year, I had something to do, and needed him to hold down the fort, there were always 110 reasons why he couldn’t. So I had to scramble, or just cancel my plans. ALWAYS. This is what they do. They play these mind games as if it’s their job, just to make your life difficult.
He wants her to leave the city and retrieve this child. (I’m sure he’s bored to tears having to entertain and play with a 3 year old little girl all day.) Poor little girl probably just wants his attention and he’s had the shits of it after like an hour. Because he’s stupid, and should have been drowned at birth. That was harsh. Sorry.
Kenya wants to keep forcing this child on him since she says that it’s important that girls have their dad in their life. I get that, and don’t disagree. However if he’s just not into it, that’s not helpful either.
She’s only three, so she may not be picking up on that feeling at this point, but will be in a few years. He’s just the type of dude that doesn’t care about being a good dad. There are so many other things that are more important to him. Sounds like my ex-husband. Being a good and involved dad, was at the BOTTOM of his list ! And I mean the bottom!! I’m not sure how it gets resolved, she stays at the restaurant. I think she just ignores him. She knows he’s lying about having to go to work. Probably good way to handle that ! Ignore them! Just like your ignore a two year old having a tantrum. They really are just 200 pound two year olds!!!
I just don’t get why Sheree has been dealing with staying with this dude in while he’s been in jail for several years. She waits eight freaking years for him to be released, not being able to spend time with him, or have a normal relationship. Now he’s on this house arrest in Philly, and she lives in Atlanta. I was looking for an article to see if they have broken up or not, and couldn’t find anything. If anyone has the skinny, let me know!
She tells everyone that he should be able to travel to New York to meet everyone since it’s under the 100 mile limit. Here is the skinny on his conviction and all of that. I wanted to look it up, since I didn’t watch Atlanta in the early years and wasn’t sure what the whole dealio was on this strange relationship.
Marlo complains to Kandi about the coochy buzzy panty things, and tells her that “she’s taking things too far…” Kandi doesn’t seem to care.
Did I complain last week about Todd wearing this stupid hoody thing to dinner? I see it’s a GUCCI hoody, but still a fucking sweatshirt, being worn to dinner in a nice restaurant. And I do not approve!
Another scene and he’s wearing weird tie dye bottoms. I don’t trust any dude wearing tie dye.
Can’t Kandi politely tell him that he looks ridiculous? In this scene, he claims he’s going to the gym with Ralph. I think he’s visiting his girlfriend. He’s acting sketchy as usual. Even in that two second scene, he’s coming off as sketchy and lying to me.
Mark managed to get out of having his daughter with him all night. That was just too much fucking work for this worthless piece of shit. Kenya needs to just throw in the towel now. It’s worse to have a dad that is obviously not interested in being a dad, then not having one at all. She was desperate to have a child, since her time was running out, which she now has, to a horrible sorry excuse for a man.
Be glad he gave you a healthy child, pray she doesn’t have his personality, and just move on. That is my advice to Kenya.
I’m sure the dispshit deadbeat will feel guilty in like 20 years when he’s old, and probably on his deathbed, there will be an awkward visit, where Brooklyn, since she’s a girl, will feel sorry for him, and blame herself, that he wanted nothing to do with her. He’ll croak, hopefully not comfortably, and the world will not have lost out. Sorry again, if that’s harsh. I have no patience for these mother fuckers. NONE. And I don’t feel bad about it.
Kandi meets with the Producers/Publicists on her play, and they seem to think that it’s going quite well.
Kenya and Sanja meet up for a NYC, and take a little stroll. Sanja asks Kenya about her ex, and she really keeps her explanation short, and is the perfect descr it short and NOT sweet. She breaks it down very well in a few sentences, as to what it is like dealing with a narcissistic personality type in a relationship.
“I was always doing something wrong, and there was just all of this drama all the time.”
That is exactly right. I feel like our arguments ALWAYS were centered around something minor, that I DID WRONG. It was either trivial that a normal person wouldn’t care about, or something he just fucking made up. They do that too. They make shit up to make you feel bad about.
What’s the best way to pick a fight with a woman? Tell her, as she’s trying so hard to please you, that she’s doing something wrong. As I said, they even resort to blatant lies, and making shit up to make you feel inferior.
My ex BF picked a fight one night because I was texting my friend while I was at this shopping event thing at a small boutique. His so-called ‘beef’ was that he was no nice as to “allow me” (I know!) to attend this function, and he didn’t ‘bother’ me all evening. (gee thanks!) When I mentioned that I was texting my friend Jack, while i was there (he’s gay btw, so it wasn’t like a jealousy issue) he got all pissed, or pretended to be. Doesn’t really matter which. I explained that I was bored and waiting for the dressing room when these oh- so- problematic -to -his -life texts took place.
Was that a good answer? Nope. First of all, the argument was ridiculous to begin with, second of all, who the fuck cares? That is a typical argument with a narcissist. They dream up something you did wrong, when you did nothing wrong. Then when you get pissed off about it, and defend yourself, they turn your reactions against you. It’s like a fun game for them. Oh, and they keep repeating the same thing that they know is pissing you off. They always need you upset and crying, and feeling worthless, to make themselves feel better, and they thrive on the chaos. Making you feel like you did something wrong (when you didn’t) checks all of their narcissistic needs. You are defensive, you are apologetic, they are getting attention that they crave, you are upset, they just controlled you, and controlled your emotions, simply by uttering one sentence, that they know damned fucking well makes no sense.
He would often tell me it was ‘okay’ (he got all beside himself when I tried to do social things without him occasionally. It was always the world’s biggest deal to just meet a friend for a drink, or have a girls’ night.) if I went out without him. And then when I did, he would then proceed to BLOW UP MY PHONE with 800 nasty text messages, usually WHILE I WAS DRIVING to where I was going. It was insane. And he literally walks around town calling me the problem when asked what happened between us. How this man even sleeps at night I don’t even know. Doesn’t THAT sound like fucking fun??? NOT !! I imagine this is what Kenya’s life was like when she was with Marc. But since she has a small child with him, she will be continuing to be dealing with this for the next 15 plus years.
So that was a lot of rambling. Back to the episode. But shockingly, we’re still on the same topic, only it’s now Ralph. As Kenya is talking about her ex gas lighter fucker, the convo segues into Drew’s current and/or future ex’s gas lighting behavior. I am so pissed that Kenya says she “feels bad” about confronting him.
Like what? Girl, stop, you’re fucking Kenya! You don’t feel bad! Why on earth would she feel bad? No one ever calls these asswipe parasites out! EVER! They make everyone afraid of them, so no one says shit!
She did not say one thing wrong. She was calm, she stated facts, (not lies and made up shit, like he does) she explained how and why she recognized the behavior. His deer in headlights face was fucking priceless!
Sonja tells her she wasn’t being harsh. Girl, you don’t need to explain anything ! You were being applauded for that shit ! This pisses me off actually. Did Ralph slip her a couple grand to say this?
Whatever. I’m disappointed.
Sanya goes into bitching to Drew now. I liked it better when we were bitching about the guys, but whatever.
This “Drop it with Drew” website weight loss program thing that she is doing, Sonja says she doesn’t get it.
They also don’t approve of her getting surgery for her own weight loss, when she is a spokesperson or whatever she is, for this fitness program. They don’t think there are ever “straight answers” from her.
Here is the link if you all wanted to check it out: It seems legit. I guess. I would just be hesitant since the so -called spokesperson is overweight. Is she following her own program? Or whose ever program this is?
https://www.dropitwithdrew.com/
Sheree and Kandi are on the phone. Sounds like the phantom boyfriend is a no show for the NYC trip, since it’s just under this allowed 100 mile radius rule, and he “doesn’t want to chance it” So right away, we’re all thinking, that doesn’t make any sense. If it’s allowed, and meets the mileage criteria, why wouldn’t he want to make the trip to see her since she’s so close.
Kandi says in her yap that she thinks he’s with his “other girlfriend.”
Sheree sounds bothered that he’s not coming, but trying to sound like she’s not bothered.
The group goes out for lunch/dinner whatever before the show. They talk about this record producer dude, JazzePha, that Marlo used to be involved with, but didn’t go anywhere because she is no side chick! ( I have a hard time believing she would have a problem with this.) To be honest, he doesn’t look like any type of prized possession. Maybe he didn’t weigh 350 lbs then?
Kenya starts a game – “most famous person that ever hit on you.” Kandi says she was in a “whole blown relationship” with Gerald Levert. (whoever that is) And she has a song with him that was never released. I think people on Twitter were challenging that. Or maybe it was just Drew’s story?
So Drew’s answer is, “a certain King of the NBA.” They bleep out his name. But word on the street, aka the internet, is that it’s LeBron James. She brags how he flew her to games, and he listened to her music… The ladies are confused because LeBron has been with his wife since high school, and she claims it was before he was married. They think she’s making it up. Here’s an article about it:
https://pagesix.com/2022/06/02/drew-sidora-reveals-past-romance-with-certain-king-of-the-nba/
Marlo’s is Gene Simmons from the 70’s band KISS. (the tongue guy) Of course no one knows who that is. I feel like Kandi, Todd and Sheree are in the age range to know who he is. Even if you weren’t a Kiss fan, which I definitely am NOT, they should at least recognize the name.
Kenya makes fun of her in her yap for liking “old white guys.” Marlo didn’t reference the time frame of when this hit on/hook up took place. Maybe he wasn’t old then? She points out that he’s “a bigger name than the ones that they had mentioned.”
Kenya’s “most famous guy that hit on me” is none other than Prince. So was it Prince she was referring to in her crazy coyote blood sex story? They flash to that scene. I guess that would make sort of sense, always heard he was a little bit out there.
So she has to be much taller than he is/was. I guess Kenya could be making it up. He’s not around to debunk it. Twitter viewers were leaning towards believing her. I don’t really think she would make that up either. And she is definitely his type judging by other chicks he was into in his day. If you check this article out, you see that Kenya fits the bill (Sheila E, Madonna, Apollonia Carmen Elektra…)
Sheree breaks it to the ladies that Tyrone is not going to be making the trip to the Big Apple. They are start demanding to know “why??!!” She tells them to simmer down, she’s going to be traveling to Philly the following day to see him.
They’re finally headed to the play and the vibrating panties are goin off.
Sanya’s wasn’t working, so she’s not shy, and gets her hands all down in there rearranging things.
Apparently other remotes work various panties. Okay, this is strange.
There’s a road closure and they have to walk/run to the theater. Marlo picks up a random bike somewhere it looks like.
The show is over and they all loved it. They change into their lounge clothes, and head to the lounge to lounge. Kenya gets all offended when Marlo burps.
They gossip about Drew and Ralph. Mostly Drew. The ladies have such an issue with this workout website thing that she is doing. They bitch about her getting the “mommy makeover” instead of putting the ‘work’ into her own ‘workouts.’ I can see where that’s all coming from. You can’t promote women working out and following a “Meal Plan’ when you yourself need to lose weight, and you just take the surgery route.
They want to take a look at the site. Marlo tries to sign up for the program, and it’s not allowing her to. Looks like the programs run only between certain dates. Right now it’s showing the next program starts on June 12th. Also looks like there are actual “camps” you attend, or do the program virtual.
So this really annoys me when Kenya apologizes to Ralph. So what have you done with the tough as nails, tells ya like it is, never backs down Real Kenya, and who is this impostor? Why is she apologizing to him? Drew looks annoyed. Girl I’m with ya ! Finally someone let’s this dufus have it, then she apologizes!! Now he’s gonna be throwing this in her face when she tries to point out that Kenya saw through his fucking crap! “yeah and she apologized!” I can hear it now!!
He says he appreciates the apology and claims that sometimes he’s “misunderstood.” Actually no dude, you’re 100 % UNDERstood. There is so much awareness and terminology online now that’s so easily accessible. It’s now been diagnosed as an actual personality disorder. Like Bipolar, Borderline Pers Disorder etc, so it IS a thing. And they will never admit they’re doing anything wrong. And they will never own this behavior. They are completely delusional.
I read that it’s even the only personality disorder that does not affect the actual ‘sufferer’ (they don’t really suffer) of the disorder whatsoever. They truly convince themselves that they aren’t doing anything wrong, and like other personality disorders, and addictions, that affect the sufferer’s life and relationships in a negative way, this disorder harms and hurts everyone around them. These people just go on with their days, and life as if everything is glorious. It’s everyone else, not them.
It really is sad what they do to people they are in relationships with. I even read that if you’re in a long time relationship with these assholes, that you could possibly suffer brain damage, because you’re almost always upset and on the defense. You’re always in the ‘fight or flight’ mode, which is so unhealthy. Our bodies/brains are not meant to function this way on a constant basis.
They have no idea what they’re doing to their victims, and nor do they care. It really is sick. And there is nothing that can be done with them, because they don’t own or admit to their behavior. It’s rare they seek any type of professional help. They refuse to be told by a therapist or medial professional that the way they’re behaving is wrong.
Okay, again, back to the episode. The fellas are bored shitless, and wanna bail, and let the women do their Housewife thing.
Sanya talks to Drew about things that have been bothering her about their friendship. Drew is instantly pissed she’s doing this “here” (hello ? You’re filming a reality show – maybe you haven’t heard)
She brings up the hand in Sheree’s face thing, which was already addressed and apologized for. So it does seem kind of silly and redundant. Sanya says she didn’t bring it up earlier when they were together because there was no privacy.
Sanya makes fun of in her yap, the gazillion assistants and entourage she has running around her room. Yeah that’s just weird.
Looking like Sanya just needs to get messy for the purpose of ‘camera time.’ See this is what I’m not liking about the Housewives anymore. Who’s with me on that? Like, the desperation to be relevant, and have attention, so just spewing nonsense is NOT entertaining.
Why not be the cool fun unbothered chick? Not nit picking at others’ flaws constantly? The girl dropped what she was doing and fetched you from your car crash. Back the hell off woman!
That’s what the hell she should say.
Sanya keeps repeating the “rock with you” phrase. The other’s faces are like they see her desperation. Kandi says in her yap she should have written it down so she could communicate effectively.
Marlo brings up her weight loss program site thing. At first I think (maybe she was being sarcastic) she thought they were really sincere and signing up to participate, but then they break it to her that the site wasn’t functioning. Marlo says “it doesn’t work.”
Drew immediately goes into robotic plugging mode and said so many have lost 100 lbs… Marlo clarifies that the site didn’t work.
Then she says “oh that’s right it crashed…” Sort of sounds like she made it up.
Drew admits to her “mommy makeover” and claims it was due to hernia and ‘health struggles.’
Girl please – pahhhhhlease. Just own that this was the easier route.
Sanya wants the whole entire program broken down. How can it be this complicated? I went on to the website and doesn’t look that complicated.
Why when the housewives have a product or thing they’re doing does everyone have to nitpick and try to yank them down?
She explains all of the ins and outs of the program. They all look bored, but didn’t they ask/demand to know?
Kenya thinks it’s giving “Ponzi scheme” vibes? Or Pyramid scheme, I think she meant ? I looked on the site and not seeing anything giving me that impression. It doesn’t appear to be recruiting people to promote it.
Sheree asks if it’s working for everyone else, why did she have to get surgery for her weight issues?
That’s fair. I just don’t think she is a big worker outer. Remember in the first ep she said “she was contacted by someone to start this.” (because she is overweight most likely) I don’t know. I wish like one or two of the Housewives would come up with some original idea ON THEIR OWN, and not just slap their name on something someone else came up with, and pretend it’s their passion? Don’t they have brains? Don’t they have ideas?
So she says ‘the hernia’ was making her stomach protrude, not the potato chips, ice cream, and lack exerecise.
“Is this legit,” Kandi asks? She claims it’s her passion, but she doesn’t seem to be following her ‘passion.’
Producers of course know she has no clue of any details about “her passion” and ask her how much the program is, and wah wah wah – of course she does not even know that. The most basic and simplest detail about the program, she has no idea about – but this is her passion.
She embarrassingly picks up her phone during the yap and calls someone smart. How does she not know this. Oh and the partner doesn’t even know? Guys, it’s one number. This isn’t hard to memorize. The partner says she “needs the app.” Drew says “we’re (not not ‘we’ Drew – it’s clear you do nothing here) working on an app guys.” Because sheseems so techy right ? She’s working on an app. This is difficult to watch. Can we get some smart housewives that do not make women look like complete fucking morons? And why would this ‘partner’ “need the app” to answer that very simple question?? So much wrong here.
They continue to whine about her surgeries being conflicting with this product she is to be representing, selling, plugging, whatever the fuck. She pulls the site up on her phone and shows Sanya, but at this point no one is really interested.
Tyrone calls Sheree and they all talk to him. He said he didn’t make it to NYC because they “changed things up on him.” Thought he didn’t want t o “chance it” because the mileage was so close. Lots of sketchiness in this episode.
She has decided to drive (be driven – Housewives don’t drive themselves) to Philly to meet him.
“Is that Philly with the tall buildings straight ahead?”
No Sheree it’sj fucking Atlantic City. See the ocean on the other side??
She keeps calling Tyrone to let him know she’s close, and he’s not answering. Continues to call and her calls go right to voicemail.
She gets to their meeting place at a restaurant and gets seated outside. She starts to complain that she’s cold. Guess there are no seats inside? They wouldn’t let her film inside ?
This is end of Oct – early Nov in PA, so little past outside seating, unless you have a random unseasonal day. Which it does not look like this is.
Now it’s ringing and then a busy signal. Since when do you get ‘busy signals’ on cell phones? He’s not texting back either. Dude clearly playin around. She calls her daughter to ask what the busy signal thing means. She says she must be blocked. If you’re blocked, it goes right to voicemail. I think he had his phone off since he knew she would be calling and calling.
Producer approaches her and says his attorney called and said “it’s a parole violation.”
She’s been waiting for two whole hours. She calls Kenya, and gives her the skinny on this mess.
She shares in her yap about putting her life on hold for years, waiting for him. This was just a shitty thing for him to do.
Kenya is really supportive and sweet. There is nothing in the previews about how this plays out.
A lot of booty shakin coming up though.
Drop in comments what you thought of this episode!!
