I feel the need to comment on this Alexis Bellino and John Janssen newfound romance, since I consider this my area of expertise.
For those watched OC during the Alexis seasons, you should know her husband whatever the fuck his name is, who cares, came off as abusive in the typical male overinflated ego, passive aggressive controlling kind of way. Typical Narcissistic Personality Disorder, which as we’re now learning, now that there’s more awareness, is a true disorder, and they’re more than just assholes. They’re actually very dangerous people to be in a relationship with. All of their behaviors and rhetoric that they use are almost exactly the same. It is a true disorder.
The higher percentage of this diagnosis, is credited to men. I’m sure it has to do with the stupid testosterone, and needing to wave their dick around, as I put it.
The disorder starts to develop in childhood, and is usually due to some sort of trauma and/or neglect. And because dudes find it more difficult to be vulnerable, and sad, or admit to being hurt, and they can’t seem to be mad at the person who actually wronged them, they deflect, and have a lot of displaced anger. They opt to hurt others, since they’re hurting and miserable. And who’s an easier target than women or their significant other? They need to choose someone weaker than them, and whomever they’re with the most.
I’m not sure if a lot of you all picked up on John being like this, because he honestly didn’t initially come off that way, so I kind of missed it too. Also, he didn’t do a lot of extensive talking and interacting with Shannon in their scenes. I think I started to realize two seasons ago, when she shared more about their arguing, and the way she described it. It sounded familiar, and not seem like a very healthy way to have a disagreement.
Then this past season, for sure, when things started to get progressively worse, since that’s how a toxic and abusive relationship works, because the longer you stay and put up with their shit, the worse they behave. They lose more and more respect for you, give a shit about your feelings less and less, and don’t feel the need to ‘hide’ their true self anymore, so they just let loose, act like a fucking douche bag, and are not even embarrassed about it. What I don’t get is, don’t they realize we’re probably confiding in and talking to people about them?? Aren’t they the least bit ashamed of themselves that they’re basically bullying around a girl?? Guess not. That’s kind of sick, but supports the theory that it’s a full on disorder that they can’t control. What dude would want their legacy to be that they tortured and abused women for enjoyment, and lied and cheated their way through life?
From what Shannon was opening up about, and what the ladies were blabbing that she had told them, he constantly spoke to her in a demeaning way, then when she got upset, called her crazy and did the ghosting and blocking thing. So mature.
So now here we are, Alexis Bellino, also previously in an abusive relationship, and she’s now fucking around with this dude. What makes it worse for her than normal people not on a reality show, is how it’s like so out there how he treated Shannon. So why in the FUCK would she got involved with this creep? He even looks creepy if you ask me. But like I said above, women that go for these dudes (myself included) think that WE’RE different, and WE’RE special, and WE’RE going to be treated better. No WE’RE not.
I foresee his ‘thing’ with her when he begins to rip off the mask in a few months, is to drag her that she’s kind of an airhead.
All of these fucking sappy posts that I’m seeing, apparently there was an ugly ring gifted to her for Christmas, make me want to puke. A ‘promise ring’ really?? Are we twelve? I foresee her hanging in there for a reasonably long time, like Shannon did, convincing herself it will get better, and not being able to tear herself away due to the trauma bonding, and the sick addiction you get to the ups and downs of a tumultuous relationship. It seems the night she crashed in September, he was doing some sort of mind fuckery. Not excusing her driving in her condition, but I think he was continuing to fuck with her, after they had broken up. That sounds familiar too. Never again. Never, ever again.
And why is he going after Housewives anyway?? Is he that desperate for attention? He surely looks pleased with himself in their photos.
This is certainly going to secure her orange for Season 18.
This dude is the new Slade Smiley, except I think Slade had somewhat good intentions, and wasn’t a big huge impostor, like this dude.
